Ek thank you to banta hai.......

Life teaches us that some body who are nobody in our life at one point may be the most important people in our lives who make our lives easy .I really mean EASY.It's been 1 year in US but I still sometimes miss maids /cooks in my home and I'm sure many would be who have to do everything by themselves.  Back home they are just people , living below poverty line who struggle hard to meet both ends meet .They wash clothes,utensils,take care of household chores and sometimes even make food as cook with meager wages and zero respect.We all get so used to taking work from them that 1 holiday by them and we can see its effects on our moms face .You must be wondering why am I writing about them.They are not that important .But they are for me.Well if you don't believe me.Perform small experiment take a week off and do everything yourself from cleaning utensils to vacuuming etc and then give me the result I bet you will miss them sometimes even more than ur mom[kidding].

So, on not  so serious note ..tomorrow morning go to the kitchen hug your maid and say aunty you are the best :P:)

So all I want to, not say but salute them for their service.. Because of them my mom is happy :) To ek thanku to banta hai !!!!

Think Wisely!!!!

“I want change_______” that’s the slogan most of us say. Missing blank can be filled by anything depending on person‘s choice like I want to change my car, my house, the way I look. But the irony is when change happens or somebody is working to bring the change our human psychology is like that we like to criticize it. Well I have proof for what I am saying , for example, somebody wants to change house and is looking for options….People will come and say “oh that location, that location is very bad or oh that house …..No u shouldn't buy it....its market price is too much” So, can somebody ask them why don’t you buy me a house….???

2nd instance: Say if a girl is healthy and wants to change herself by reducing weight after listening to taunts from people who till  yesterday didn't even exist but now suddenly influence her .. So, after reducing some weight now those people have a new things to say “Beta ji , what happened don’t you get food at home?? Isn’t your mom giving you food???You seem to look weak, pale"……Weak???

The point is we shout and scream for change but when somebody brings a change or tries to at least we like to discourage, demoralize, taunt defame and criticize rather than appreciating it .My Question is being responsible citizens we should firstt not  jump  on conclusions  (which we  can’t help at ) rather let somebody try. There are many people who seem to have followed 3 idiots movie very religiously. So instead of supporting parties they like they are trying to defame others. The point is ,is their party so weak as compared to others that in order to  bring their party up , or rather than focusing on it, they are  trying to shift their focus on other parties and trying to defame it…

All I want to say to all citizens is follow what you think is right and not what just one person/news  channel is saying…Use your mind and vote carefully tomorrow.

Proud Parents

Life teaches you and no one can teach you better not even parents. We will not believe them but when life gives a good kick we understand the same thing. Today life surprised me again by teaching a new lesson. To get their daughters married to the right guy at right time and till then and even after that she remains safe ,happy ,protected is itself a challenge and a dream at the same time. It is so sad for the parents who lose their daughters (when they are burnt alive for dowry, acid attack, rape) . The pain itself of losing their young daughters  is excruciating let alone the reason which caused this pain). Parents want that their daughters to stand on their feet so that even during adverse times they are capable enough to make their way. Now I understand, how proud parents feel when their daughters achieve great heights. And how happy they feel when everything goes alright and girl get married to right guy who keeps their daughter happy, taking care of all her needs, hopes, aspirations .It is the most proud moment especially for the father. May be that is why, people kill their daughters in womb because they are weak to take care ,  grow their daughters into  independent, smart and intellectual human beings who follow her heart and at the same time does the right thing to make herself and her parents proud.

Salute to all parents who have daughters!!!!!

Respect

                                         

                                          "No body can teach you better than life..."

It sometimes happens that we are not able to understand importance of small things or sometimes of  people  in life... like How much they mean to us.........
May be we are so used to them...that we ignore their  importance......

 And that's how I learnt the famous economics law "The more you have of a thing the less you want to have more of it"

Let me give an example..[I wish I had paid attention to the  practical application of this law :(  ]

Many crave for fast food or prefer eating out than eating home cooked food..But most of us who are living away from family miss home cooked  especially the one prepared by our mothers ......

Ohh I just miss those days ...and home cooked food made by my mom...
I'm sure many ,  who are staying away would be feeling the same .....

# respect to all moms
Who take pains and are silly attitude but still never give up on us ...And make sure that we do have our meals :):)

Kahani ghar ghar ki

Har ghar ki kahani is nowadays becoming “kahani INDIA ki”. Like typical Indian saas bahu  serial plot where Saas ( center government) Bahu (other parties) pry each other.One mistake by either one  ,the other  makes it a point that no deed goes unpunished. So, a common issue becomes a situation of do or die.

For example, the recent suspension of IAS officer Durga Shakti has led to series of accusations .Saas (center ) blamed SP government in UP(bahu) for making a prompt decision of suspending the officer. But ,Instead of admitting its mistake, bahu comes with a justification that many such incidents have happened in the past too, when Congress was in state as government. So, Congress telling them what to do is morally incorrect.

(I guess UP government watches Ekta kapoor serial religiously. May be they follow the idea that “Kyunki saas bhi jab bahu thi” they did the same. So, they are only following the old traditions :P)

In my opinion if nothing is done soon enough, our family (INDIA) will disintegrate with family members fighting among each other and third party (vamp) taking advantage of the situation.

 

DO IT....

Time flies by........

 And our old friends are left on stand by....

Today I can’t help myself remembering those famous dialogues of Amitabh and  Shashi Kapoor starrer Deewar movie ,in which Amitabh has everything except his mother by his side..I know you might say that why all of a sudden  ” itna filmy dialogue”. Well on a  serious note it is  becoming reality. We have time to go out for lunch or watch movies with acquaintances but we don’t have time for that one special person, who has been by our side from the time we were born. When we grow up and get busy she is still there but now she has lost her shine as  she occupies back stage and stars(friends) surround the moon(ourselves).

If she hugs us at the airport or elsewhere we say” GROW UP MOM” or “MOM PLEASE NOT AT PUBLIC PLACE”. But if same affection is shown by our wives/husbands/girlfriend/boyfriend, we find it cool...

If she tries to be protective and if she cares too much we say” COMMON MOM I’M GROWN UP NOW  STOP ,TREATING ME LIKE KID”. But if our friends give us attention like our mother do, we find it So Sweet...

But have you forgot your childhood, when for every small thing you used to run to your mom like asking her to choose clothes for you etc and now if she chooses clothes for you, you shrug her off...

I’m not complaining, as I know we all are very busy ....Even if we are not we still pretend to be...Anyways, this time on MOTHER’S DAY, Sit with your mother, talk to her about her likes, dislikes. Or take her out for little shopping Or if you are distance away from your mom, “CALL HER”..And this time no excuses..as  MOTHERS DAY FALLS ON 11^th MAY..i.e “ SATURDAY” .So no excuses that you have work.

------Dedicated to my mom and all other moms who make selfless sacrifices to make their children better humans without asking anything materialistic in return, as all they want is respect and love.

REALITY

Some experience this catastrophe before it can reach it’s pinnacle and some experience it’s long lasting  effects....You must be wondering what I’m talking about??? Well I’m talking about 6 months training which college students have to undergo as it is mandatory. Now you must be thinking why going to training is a debacle because it shouldn't be a debacle rather it should be a training experience. But ask yourself, how many of you seriously go to training to learn??Getting internship at a good company is like baking a cake. So, if one of the ingredients goes missing ,you have to eat the cake whether you like it or not. Every student has to take one of the following tests(even after leaving college tests don’t leave you :P)

TEST 1: Source Test –yes friends this test is taken by every student. It checks how good we are or our parents are in making contacts. As to get into a training programme FOR FREE, it requires references. And those who lack or do not perform well in this test are seen ending up in a paid one. So along with college fee they have to pay for training programme.

TEST 2: Even if we score good in TEST 1, it does not mean that we can score easily in this test too. As now we have to face our project manager. If one is lucky and his project manager is as sweet as sweets then he can enjoy his work .See the silver line he can actually work.

But if you are not and you face a rattle brain, who likes to boast about his achievement and likes to keep his tensions on your head. Then,God save your soul. Most of the project managers don’t let trainees work because they feel trainees are INCOMPETENT, HOPELESS, USELESS people who are born to make mistakes. So they ask them to stay in a corner .Although who wouldn't like to sit idle and gossip with other trainees. But that we have been doing for 3 and half hours. So, to do same thing for 6 months ??Even if we take holidays to join some course we can’t ..Our dearest boss don’t less us ..And our condition is just like that of dolphin. Although dolphin likes to remain in water but it can’t as they have to come on surface to BREATHE. But this is just 1 sided torture. It doubles when our teachers ask us to submit weekly reports and make a visit to our training institute to ask our coordinator  about  how we are doing..But aren't we the sufferers?? So shouldn't they be asking us about how we are??(irony L )

We cannot even argue with our bosses as they have to grade us. I guess every training institute should have a Performa so that we get to grade them

FINALLY

TEST 3: We have to give Presentation(as if we did learn something. Wait .........may be we did learn something “PATIENCE”).And that actually helps when we don’t get a job even after getting grilled for 6 months. May be the education system needs some reformation? So, that those 6 months of students are not wasted.