Saturday, 14 June 2014

MY STEP FATHER is the best :)

We all must have wished our father HAPPY FATHER'S DAY and they are the best no doubt about that :) But did you wish your step father HAPPY FATHER'S DAY ...I know step fathers are generally cruel but they are part of lives even if they make our lives hell :( Nope don't even think that I am drunk or crazy.Well you must be thinking , whom  I am talking about.....Who your step father is??? .....Who scolds you even for your smallest mistake, who doesn't misses single chance of teasing you....And I'm sure you must have told him/her"You are not my dad ,so don't act like one "

Who make you feel that you are the biggest sinner in this field ..... but when dad scolds you he/she is the one who defends you ,loves you and consoles you and says "you were not wrong" circumstances were".So, even though he/she makes you feel guilty that you are useless but when actual situation comes and you are in problem ,he/she turns into chameleon and protects you. ....I know ,we loathe our step father,curse him/her for being so mean but irony is we can't even live without them ...and miss their irritating habits....No wild guesses guys because he/she is none other than our IRRITATING  younger/older brother/sister who like actually love to act like our daddy..So Happy Father's day Step daddy :):P

Tuesday, 10 June 2014

Ek thank you to banta hai.......

Life teaches us that some body who are nobody in our life at one point may be the most important people in our lives who make our lives easy .I really mean EASY.It's been 1 year in US but I still sometimes miss maids /cooks in my home and I'm sure many would be who have to do everything by themselves.  Back home they are just people , living below poverty line who struggle hard to meet both ends meet .They wash clothes,utensils,take care of household chores and sometimes even make food as cook with meager wages and zero respect.We all get so used to taking work from them that 1 holiday by them and we can see its effects on our moms face .You must be wondering why am I writing about them.They are not that important .But they are for me.Well if you don't believe me.Perform small experiment take a week off and do everything yourself from cleaning utensils to vacuuming etc and then give me the result I bet you will miss them sometimes even more than ur mom[kidding].

So, on not  so serious note ..tomorrow morning go to the kitchen hug your maid and say aunty you are the best :P:)

So all I want to, not say but salute them for their service.. Because of them my mom is happy :) To ek thanku to banta hai !!!!

Thursday, 10 April 2014

Think Wisely!!!!

“I want change_______” that’s the slogan most of us say. Missing blank can be filled by anything depending on person‘s choice like I want to change my car, my house, the way I look. But the irony is when change happens or somebody is working to bring the change our human psychology is like that we like to criticize it. Well I have proof for what I am saying , for example, somebody wants to change house and is looking for options….People will come and say “oh that location, that location is very bad or oh that house …..No u shouldn't buy it....its market price is too much” So, can somebody ask them why don’t you buy me a house….???
2nd instance: Say if a girl is healthy and wants to change herself by reducing weight after listening to taunts from people who till  yesterday didn't even exist but now suddenly influence her .. So, after reducing some weight now those people have a new things to say “Beta ji , what happened don’t you get food at home?? Isn’t your mom giving you food???You seem to look weak, pale"……Weak???
The point is we shout and scream for change but when somebody brings a change or tries to at least we like to discourage, demoralize, taunt defame and criticize rather than appreciating it .My Question is being responsible citizens we should firstt not  jump  on conclusions  (which we  can’t help at ) rather let somebody try. There are many people who seem to have followed 3 idiots movie very religiously. So instead of supporting parties they like they are trying to defame others. The point is ,is their party so weak as compared to others that in order to  bring their party up , or rather than focusing on it, they are  trying to shift their focus on other parties and trying to defame it…

All I want to say to all citizens is follow what you think is right and not what just one person/news  channel is saying…Use your mind and vote carefully tomorrow.

Monday, 24 March 2014

Proud Parents

Life teaches you and no one can teach you better not even parents. We will not believe them but when life gives a good kick we understand the same thing. Today life surprised me again by teaching a new lesson. To get their daughters married to the right guy at right time and till then and even after that she remains safe ,happy ,protected is itself a challenge and a dream at the same time. It is so sad for the parents who lose their daughters (when they are burnt alive for dowry, acid attack, rape) . The pain itself of losing their young daughters  is excruciating let alone the reason which caused this pain). Parents want that their daughters to stand on their feet so that even during adverse times they are capable enough to make their way. Now I understand, how proud parents feel when their daughters achieve great heights. And how happy they feel when everything goes alright and girl get married to right guy who keeps their daughter happy, taking care of all her needs, hopes, aspirations .It is the most proud moment especially for the father. May be that is why, people kill their daughters in womb because they are weak to take care ,  grow their daughters into  independent, smart and intellectual human beings who follow her heart and at the same time does the right thing to make herself and her parents proud.

Salute to all parents who have daughters!!!!!