Respect

                                         

                                          "No body can teach you better than life..."

It sometimes happens that we are not able to understand importance of small things or sometimes of  people  in life... like How much they mean to us.........
May be we are so used to them...that we ignore their  importance......

 And that's how I learnt the famous economics law "The more you have of a thing the less you want to have more of it"

Let me give an example..[I wish I had paid attention to the  practical application of this law :(  ]

Many crave for fast food or prefer eating out than eating home cooked food..But most of us who are living away from family miss home cooked  especially the one prepared by our mothers ......

Ohh I just miss those days ...and home cooked food made by my mom...
I'm sure many ,  who are staying away would be feeling the same .....

# respect to all moms
Who take pains and are silly attitude but still never give up on us ...And make sure that we do have our meals :):)

Kahani ghar ghar ki

Har ghar ki kahani is nowadays becoming “kahani INDIA ki”. Like typical Indian saas bahu  serial plot where Saas ( center government) Bahu (other parties) pry each other.One mistake by either one  ,the other  makes it a point that no deed goes unpunished. So, a common issue becomes a situation of do or die.

For example, the recent suspension of IAS officer Durga Shakti has led to series of accusations .Saas (center ) blamed SP government in UP(bahu) for making a prompt decision of suspending the officer. But ,Instead of admitting its mistake, bahu comes with a justification that many such incidents have happened in the past too, when Congress was in state as government. So, Congress telling them what to do is morally incorrect.

(I guess UP government watches Ekta kapoor serial religiously. May be they follow the idea that “Kyunki saas bhi jab bahu thi” they did the same. So, they are only following the old traditions :P)

In my opinion if nothing is done soon enough, our family (INDIA) will disintegrate with family members fighting among each other and third party (vamp) taking advantage of the situation.

 

DO IT....

Time flies by........

 And our old friends are left on stand by....

Today I can’t help myself remembering those famous dialogues of Amitabh and  Shashi Kapoor starrer Deewar movie ,in which Amitabh has everything except his mother by his side..I know you might say that why all of a sudden  ” itna filmy dialogue”. Well on a  serious note it is  becoming reality. We have time to go out for lunch or watch movies with acquaintances but we don’t have time for that one special person, who has been by our side from the time we were born. When we grow up and get busy she is still there but now she has lost her shine as  she occupies back stage and stars(friends) surround the moon(ourselves).

If she hugs us at the airport or elsewhere we say” GROW UP MOM” or “MOM PLEASE NOT AT PUBLIC PLACE”. But if same affection is shown by our wives/husbands/girlfriend/boyfriend, we find it cool...

If she tries to be protective and if she cares too much we say” COMMON MOM I’M GROWN UP NOW  STOP ,TREATING ME LIKE KID”. But if our friends give us attention like our mother do, we find it So Sweet...

But have you forgot your childhood, when for every small thing you used to run to your mom like asking her to choose clothes for you etc and now if she chooses clothes for you, you shrug her off...

I’m not complaining, as I know we all are very busy ....Even if we are not we still pretend to be...Anyways, this time on MOTHER’S DAY, Sit with your mother, talk to her about her likes, dislikes. Or take her out for little shopping Or if you are distance away from your mom, “CALL HER”..And this time no excuses..as  MOTHERS DAY FALLS ON 11^th MAY..i.e “ SATURDAY” .So no excuses that you have work.

------Dedicated to my mom and all other moms who make selfless sacrifices to make their children better humans without asking anything materialistic in return, as all they want is respect and love.

REALITY

Some experience this catastrophe before it can reach it’s pinnacle and some experience it’s long lasting  effects....You must be wondering what I’m talking about??? Well I’m talking about 6 months training which college students have to undergo as it is mandatory. Now you must be thinking why going to training is a debacle because it shouldn't be a debacle rather it should be a training experience. But ask yourself, how many of you seriously go to training to learn??Getting internship at a good company is like baking a cake. So, if one of the ingredients goes missing ,you have to eat the cake whether you like it or not. Every student has to take one of the following tests(even after leaving college tests don’t leave you :P)

TEST 1: Source Test –yes friends this test is taken by every student. It checks how good we are or our parents are in making contacts. As to get into a training programme FOR FREE, it requires references. And those who lack or do not perform well in this test are seen ending up in a paid one. So along with college fee they have to pay for training programme.

TEST 2: Even if we score good in TEST 1, it does not mean that we can score easily in this test too. As now we have to face our project manager. If one is lucky and his project manager is as sweet as sweets then he can enjoy his work .See the silver line he can actually work.

But if you are not and you face a rattle brain, who likes to boast about his achievement and likes to keep his tensions on your head. Then,God save your soul. Most of the project managers don’t let trainees work because they feel trainees are INCOMPETENT, HOPELESS, USELESS people who are born to make mistakes. So they ask them to stay in a corner .Although who wouldn't like to sit idle and gossip with other trainees. But that we have been doing for 3 and half hours. So, to do same thing for 6 months ??Even if we take holidays to join some course we can’t ..Our dearest boss don’t less us ..And our condition is just like that of dolphin. Although dolphin likes to remain in water but it can’t as they have to come on surface to BREATHE. But this is just 1 sided torture. It doubles when our teachers ask us to submit weekly reports and make a visit to our training institute to ask our coordinator  about  how we are doing..But aren't we the sufferers?? So shouldn't they be asking us about how we are??(irony L )

We cannot even argue with our bosses as they have to grade us. I guess every training institute should have a Performa so that we get to grade them

FINALLY

TEST 3: We have to give Presentation(as if we did learn something. Wait .........may be we did learn something “PATIENCE”).And that actually helps when we don’t get a job even after getting grilled for 6 months. May be the education system needs some reformation? So, that those 6 months of students are not wasted.

CAREER OPTION

With recent recession hitting all the industries, getting placed is like a dream. After spending approximately one lakh on graduation, a person getting a job of Rs 10,000 p.m considers himself to be lucky. Especially, when he sees his classmates still struggling to get a job.

Now, this  makes me think that is there any field which is not hit by RECESSION and then a bell rings.

No, not the  door bell but my father’s phone rings and flashes “PANDIT Jatadhar Calling”. What I realized might make you laugh. But it is not a bad idea after all. Not getting it??????

Pandit ??? Yogi ?? Mahant ?? Guruma ?? Career Option??

P.S: And those of you who can sing well, can get handsome money for performing at BHAJAN SANDHYA. Trust me, I have seen people getting paid well for 2 hour show and they are not interested in singing god hymns but mix their songs with Bollywood or Punjabi tunes .Many  might have noticed it too. Lets get back to the career option we were discussing. I’m actually gone prove my point by giving examples

Firstly, whenever you buy a new house or car etc etc, where do you go first or whom do you call? Obviously Panditji or any guruji or guruma you believe in. Panditji performs his PUJA and we give them their dakshina. And even that dakshina follows ECONOMICS principle. ”More the price of commodity you  bought more dakshina you have to give”.

Secondly , If a man dies or a child is born ,whom do you call? Again a Pandit or guruji you believe in. Guru ji does his puja, of which you understand not a single word and in return give them dakshina. If it’s a boy  then you pay him well and if girl then less.

And they are paid the most , when our sweet mom takes our horoscope to panditji to ask about our future or to find ways to eradicate problems from our lives. Even if there is nothing wrong with us they’ll proclaim that all bad things are happening because of RAHU OR SHANI OR KETU being in our KUNDLI. So, whatever they say ,we have to do as nobody wants to mess with either panditji or stars .One visit to them  makes us shed thousands of rupees. Above mentioned reasons are just few among many other occasions from where they get SOME extra cash. This “Some” extra cash amounts to nearly Rs 50,000 plus other perks and yes how can I forget their meager income of Rs 5000.Moreover, all their lodging and food is taken care by temple authorities .To be a pandit or guru or guruma all you have to do is enter a gurukul, which charges you nothing.

So, you have to pay nothing to get this job and  get paid handsomely along with other perks. If you are thinking that even this field will get affected by recession then don’t worry  because you go to temples more during that time J

Moreover, in country like India this field is quite blooming. Recently I read a MAHANT/GURUJI of some sect bought 0001 number for his 60 lakh SUV car for 10 lakhs. He is just not one ,many other guru or guruma own luxury cars along with huge acres of property. So, friends being a sadhu or guru or guruma is not  bad career option after all in country like ours where we the COMMON MAN believe in them so much rather than believing in GOD.

And I think GURU MA Khushboo(Er)  would’nt  sound that bad. So I can be head mata and anybody interested in being my assistant can contact me  :PJ