WAKE UP.....

"1984 Sikh riots",  "Godhra case", "mob attacks Churches in Orissa", "Foreign family which came as  christian missionary killed by mob in Orissa", "Ayodhya riots", "dalit woman burnt to death" and the recent one "Hindu muslim riots in Assam".. The list of incidents goes ON and ON...

When Indians are killed in abroad like AUSTRALIA, our the recent one AMERICA.. we in INDIA get Immediately rocked, and start sympathizing along with curses for the country where it happened.. Moreover, we stop sending our kids there.. But what about people who are staying in INDIA and are subjected to atrocities of the society,mob only because either they are HINDUS,SIKHS,MUSLIM and even on basis of caste like whether they are dalit,brahmin etc.. So when people are attacked in abroad we condemn it, but when it happens in INDIA, we support it..why DO WE exhibit  DUAL PERSONALITY???? why cant we condemn killings on basis of religion in INDIA Too.. And demand strict action against the culprits  like we demand in case of racist attacks.Although, I agree that attacks, which happen in india are not racist but innocent lives are killed, and their only mistake is that they are from particular religion or from particular caste....

Although our constitution says that we should treat all alike but it is politicians who have divided people on basis of religion,caste and that too for their vote banks and they do so by bringing reservations ... Although I know some of us will support reservations and I'm Not against it but ,don't you think that when people get jobs or admissions on the  basis of reservation it actually createS  invisible Divisions in the society... Like in my college a separate list is created , for those who have got admission on basis of reservation  and I actually think  that it  creates a difference among the masses .. "Ki oh! he is from SC/ST quota.."

And sometimes becoz of reservations less qualified or capable person is chosen over more deserving one..

So it is high time now , politicians should wake up, and should start thinking about the country's progress rather than about their own personal gain...

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY!!! 

        IN ADVANCE

RECONSIDER.......

India is known as land of many religions, where every month we celebrate a festival.Not only, we celebrate birthdays of our gods and goddess but also of the martyr's who had laid their lives in order to teach Indians one or the other lessons of life.......

Today, when we are so busy, it is good to celebrate festivals because they give us a motive to take out time from our busy schedules  and remember their teachings .. Recently, we celebrated JANAMASHTMI ie, birthday of lord Krishna who played a pivotal role in MAHABAHRTA.. Celebrating JANAMASHTMI does not mean that we simply go to temple ...now days, it plays more important role.. It is a day we get a holiday to actually think about those lessons they gave us.. ,which is very important these days like Lord Krishnji told us" To trust yourself, and do what you think is right. Do not consider what others say. Rather be confident and perform actions which according to you is right, because at the end of the day, we have to answer our conscience....

Today , we seriously need to execute  teachings like this, because half of the Indians consider what others think of them rather than what they think of themselves...No matter , how much they like to do something, they WONT, because they are worried , what others might think of them.. Friends, festival is not celebrated only to eat, fast, on this day.. It is also meant to reconsider our lifestyle and actions..

My First Best Friend...

I know its a well known topic , for writing an essay or composition.. In fact ,I remember.. that we were made to cram.. Especially my best friend topic :) When we used to be kids, I'm sure many of you would agree that, our best friend used to be our MOTHER.. You must be thinking why I'm saying mother.?? Well thats because, remember who used to be the one to hide your mistakes from your father?? Who used to get you balloons , whenever you went to market with her?? And how can you forget the pim pom lollipop you used to suck??

Whenever you used to get hurt , who used to be there for you and applies medicine to it..?? Answer is mother.:) In my opinion,she completely fits the definition of "A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED"!

Even  at midnight, if you are hungry, you just need to tell her and guess what ,we get 2 minute noodles at our service:).. She keeps running after us , that we should drink our milk or eat our food but we fullfilling the definition of "child" play "Hide and Seek" with her .. What a time it was:) 

When we enter our teenage, we make friends in school and then in college.. And start moving away from our mother.. Earlier the hide seek we used to love, now is called intrusion of privacy by us.. Earlier in our childhood, we couldnt even think of buying any clothes from the market and used to wear clothes of her choice, but know if she asks us to wear a particular dress , we simply say No!! and rudely send her away.

I'm not saying that whatever they say, do it.. But what you can do is ...ie, Next time you have a fight with her, you should not argue back.. Let her cool down and then explain your side of story.. 


And since we the teenagers always have a ready made reply that" we are busy", every time our mother asks us to do some work.. So lets take out time for our dear , and our 1st best friend and take her out or atleast buy her a present:)

M-mature
O-organized
T-trustworthy
H-helpful
E-energetic
R-rugged




dedicated to my first best friend:)
my mom

SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP

   

Every relationship has some sweet and sour memories... And so was the relationship BETWEEN Bubbly and Khalbali...

Bubbly was a cute, small girl with cheeks protruding out. She was just like her name, sweet little bubble.. She was the only child of her parents and very naughty….Once she saw mummy pig FEEDING her piglets and when she came back home , she was adamant to drink pig's milk ... It was only after her father showed her where pigs live.. , she gave up the idea.

Not only this, she even ATE fodder ONLY BECAUSE SHE WAS AMUSED THE WAY BUFFALO WAS EATING IT. She was a quick learner and crammer too ... YOU must be wondering how can I say that??

Well once she heard someone saying " ulu , befkuf, pagal" and after that whenever she used to get angry ,she used to say those 3 words even TO her mother.. Poor kid, she just heard it somewhere And started saying it.. But her parents found solution TO it, They took her to THE zoo and showed her, how an owl looks like. After that she was so scared that she stopped saying those words.......  now as she was growing up ,she was  becoming more mature, innocent, calm....

After 10 years a storm came in her life.. And name of that storm was khalbali... He was just like the name…” K H A L B A L I” .He believed in rocking the world and I mean it sarcastically..

And before you get anything wrong, khalbali was bubbly’s little bro:)
Like  I was saying, like  any other younger sibling in a house, he wanted whatever she was getting. I’m sure many of You might have either experienced it or done it:) Well ,once their father got a camera for bubbly, but it was out of limits for khalbali since he was small. What do YOu think,he will do??Will  he obediently  leavE the camera alone..???? No ways , when everybody had gone asleep, he took his chance ,took the camera out and started clicking photos of apple to fridge to everything You can think of.. After all, he thought if his sister can have it , WHY not him:)

Not only this, he added another feather to his cap. Once bubbly went with khalbali for a ride on her new scooty. Khalbali asked bubbly to let her drive. Being elder sibling she gave him the scooty to drive. But when khalbali struck the scooty with the tree, he started displaying his acting skills by blaming his sister and saying" di I told you to drive carefully but you don’t listen. Now see what you have done" . Thus giving brilliant performance in front of onlookers...

After 20 yrs , both live separate lives...one living in INDIA and other abroad...so they occasionally meet. NOW WHAT IS LEFT ARE THE MEMORIES OF THOSE FIGHTS AND FUN THEY USED TO HAVE TOGETHER.THE POINT IS THAT FIGHTS ARE INTEGRAL PART OF BROTHER-SISTER RELATIONSHIP OR BETWEEN TWO SIBLINGS.AS WE GROW UP AND GET BUSY IN OUR LIFE, ALL THAT IS LEFT ARE MEMORIES..SO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE BEFORE YOU PART WAYS WITH YOUR LOVED ONES AND GET BUSY IN YOUR OWN LIVES...SO BE THE FIRST ONE TO CALL IN FOR TRUCE…SO THAT THERE IS NO SPACE LEFT FOR SOUR FEELINGS....                                                                          

So enjoy raksha bandhan !! 

 (dedicated to my brothers)

P.S :-raksha bandhan is an Indian festival.

MISS TAKES......

"Am I perfect, no but I did make a mistake.."
May be no one is perfect... and I guess ,mistakes are a part of life...no matter how much we try avoiding it, It happens.. BUT if we commit mistakes , does it mean we are careless and irresponsible??? I don't think so.... Mistakes always bring positive change in our lives. It is just the way we see it. For example, have you ever committed a mistake twice?? I'm sure many would say NO...This is because we generally learn lessons from them ... Not only this , it was by mistake FIRE was discovered, and by mistake COLUMBUS found America. So be it science or history.. Mistakes are good , and what the best part is that it teaches us and I find it the best teacher, because it teaches lessons which we can't forget ...EVER.. For instance, have you ever bought a expired product and forgot to check its expiry date..??Well I'm sure , next time you went to the market to buy any product, the first thing you check is the expiry date and not it's price :)...List of common mistakes we make is endless.. But best part is we become more vigilant and careful:)

If we see word MISTAKES under magnifying glass.. It is made of 2 words MISS  TAKES.. which means our life is like a film, and our director ( GOD) supervises all our moves and even the story...so if we make a mistake (or MISS the TAKE) while performing our shot, he always gives us a chance to RETAKE.. but *condition applied, that we need to recognize it , and try to give another best shot.. So all I want to say is that nothing is permanent, we can always undo it...by not committing same mistake AGAIN..

Father's day special !!!!

Curtains fall, lights on and I hear thunder of claps for the brilliant performance of the actors.Actors win awards, laurels. Everyone  is appreciated for their work except , behind the stage people ,who I feel should also be appreciated.Yes I mean spotboys,technicians ,makeup man etc; who watch the actors getting awards from a distance and feel happy that their hard work has payed........

   Well you must be thinking that all of a sudden why am I talking about giving credit to backstage people.... dont worry i'm  not promoting any NGO..I'm saying this because "Our life" is also like a stage..isn't it??? And if we think ,even we have some unappreciated people in our life.Children especially youngsters are generally close to their mothers.We have this fear that our father is very strict ,he'll not listen to anything ,he might overreact.But my definition of father is someone who likes to watch his child grow from distance and when his child grows up and becomes successful,he smiles and thinks that finally his hard work has paid.Has it ever happened that you wanted something but your mom said no to it and you went to  your dad and asked for the same thing ,and he said Yes....Well fathers  not always say NO.They only stop us from having something because they do not want their little prince/princess to get hurt as they  know the obnoxious world outside better than we do..All they want is that we should have fun but without getting hurt. They do not want any appreciation, all they want is that we become independent,that is we stand on our feet.....

Father's day does not mean that we just wish our fathers.When we grow up and enter teenage we generally try to avoid sitting with our dad may be because we are shy or whatever may be the reason...But today lets take  out time for them and sit with them and have little chit chat over a cup of coffee and talk about anything to everything and make them  feel special....

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!..and I promise to do what you taught me ie,to be

f-free thinker
a-attentive
t-thoughtful
h-helpful
e-entrusting
r-resolute



-------(dedicated to my father)

Amazing Facts !!!!!

1) There are 40,000 New York City cab drivers, who collectively drive more than million miles each day.


2) The average person has over 1460 dreams a year.


3) One Third of land in the United States is owned by government.


4) Despite the hump, a camel's spine is straight.


4) Every one's tongue print is different.


5) The most used letter in English alphabet is "e", and "q" is least one


6) The united states has 5% of the world's population, but consumes 25% of world's energy.


7) Bats always turn left when exiting a cave.


8) The largest McDonald's is in Beijing, China-measuring 28,000 square feet. It has 29 cash registers.


9) North Dakota has never had an earthquake.


10) Kangaroos cannot walk backwards.


11) The sentence "The quick brown fox jumps over a lazy dog" uses every letter of the alphabet.